


| NV | Would give them up for the greater good...
Posted Wed, 05/14/2008 - 19:04
I’m a fashion fan, and admittedly, the industry likes glamour, exceptionally beautiful women and occasional trips to fantasy land. As consumers we have to remember that those women are touched up/air-brushed, beauty comes in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors, and that we should dictate who and what we’d like to see in magazines. If less consumption is the only way, so be it. Regardless of media and fashion magazines, if grown women lack positive self-esteem that’s likely to be passed on to young women and girls - so we all have to be committed to the need for change.
BTW, you're definitely "that cool broad" : )
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| Janie | This is going to sound fetishy
Posted Wed, 05/14/2008 - 20:31
I really buy fashion magazines to look at shoes and handbags. Seriously, I also think you bring up some important points. I worry about effect on the youngin's more than myself. These kinds of messages seem to subliminally be pushing our girls to grow up so quickly before they have the mental maturity and the confidence to really make good decisions.
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| Pamela Munro | Fashion mags
Posted Thu, 05/15/2008 - 16:16
Since there is so much fashion info gratis on the net, I rarely indulge in fashion mags & only look at them in waiting rooms! One tips one's hat to fashion not to look too dowdy - but the rest is dressing for you & your type. I know how to dress me better than almost anybody.
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| alison skirtboston | thanks
Posted Fri, 05/16/2008 - 06:19
This is an issue I've obsessed about since my first daughter was born 18 years ago (three others followed). The media seems to be the big culprit, but parents also have to consider how they act, what they talk about and how they appear, too. I believe that teaching by example is so important -- I surprised myself by giving up dieting, refusing to talk about being "fat" and not comparing myself to others (in appearance). We talk frequently about the merits of chasing someone else's "ideal." And the magazines and demeaning TV shows and movies have not been part of their lives. It's possible to raise well-adjusted kids with positive self-images.
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| Sara Conrad | I'm right there with you for
Posted Fri, 05/16/2008 - 13:58
I'm right there with you for creating more. But, I think it's important not to avoid media--shutting oneself out can be damaging, too. Actually, I think expanding one's media consumption to different points of view (such as Ms. Mag) is really important. If you shut out the toxic, you also shut out the nutritious info. I don't think fashion mags are to blame--in fact, fashion is a means of artistic expression just as painting or writing. I think how women are seen is something that needs to be dealt with in society's greater subconciousness(however that may be done, ha!)-- before it isn't reflected and imitated in the media. Pointing fingers at the media is like shooting the messenger. People respond to media that interests them...I have too much to say. I'm responding via blog! :)~Sara
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