


I
should’ve known not to agree to a sit down with my husband, to ignore his, “We
need to talk” prompt. He’s not really much of a talker, and that statement is
typically followed by a “serious” conversation, much more than I was prepared
for on a sunny, weekend afternoon. He wanted to talk about…“The Budget.” This
typically involves a prior episode of me engaging recklessly in one of my
hobbies, which means a call for modification to my SOP of spending. Considering
I hadn’t made a purchase of any sort (minus groceries) in weeks, I was
surprised that this was the topic of choice.
After
hours of grueling negotiation and a commitment on my hubbie’s part to give up
the TV while I watched back-to-back re-run episodes of Sex and The City, I am presently
operating under the “envelope system.” I’ve done this before and it was hard.
This horrible tactic is implemented when there’s a need in my household for
“controlled spending,” which is often sparked by unexpected expenses (car
maintenance/repairs, holiday gift shopping, tax season, etc.) A sad time for
me and shopping sprees, yet very beneficial in the long run.
This
news coincides conveniently (inconveniently?) with this first blog entry, where I will often focus on the joys of shopping (utter bliss!) in this tough
economy, as well as money – spending and saving. (Yes, shopping and saving can
be polar opposites, but…where there’s a will, there’s a way!)
For
those of you not familiar with the envelope system, here goes…
1)
Start with a review of your spending patterns. This means going back into your
check book, reviewing your credit card statements, etc. and recording items you
typically “spend on.” This includes everything – your utilities bills, gas
purchases, mall visits, pub crawl fund….everything.
2)
Then categorize your monthly spending. Your mortgage/rent is a category, and
monthly bills (i.e. utilities, phone, etc.) can be another one. Other
categories include: groceries, church/tithe, clothes, savings, gas, entertainment, and more
entertainment (e.g. pub crawl fund). I rallied for my own “shopping fund”
category to replace the second option for entertainment. This is your system,
have fun with it!
3)
Once you see your approximate amount for each category (and you should
guess-timate a little high for each category, to be safe) – you fund each
envelope with the calculated amount. If you’re disciplined and dedicated (which
I am!) – you may leave the amount in the bank and carry a list with your
itemized budget items, adding and subtracting as necessary via debit card.
Here’s
a rough example:
You
need to make at least $2,900 a month to fit within the budget options
above. And if this is the case, you’re likely living paycheck-to-paycheck. Ugh.
OK,
let’s say you spend everything in your entertainment fund your first weekend of
the month. You can pillage your grocery fund (bad idea) or one of the others,
but otherwise – you’re done for the month with entertainment. (Crazy, I know!) Same with all of
the other categories. Within reason, of course – don’t opt not to fill up
your car with gas, miss work, and have a whole other set of problems.
Fairly
simple, seems utterly painless – but I challenge you to try it. By the way,
this controlled-spending envelope system doesn’t allow for credit cards as a
buffer. That’s right. NO CREDIT CARDS. So, if you do use your credit card for a
movie or gas, you need to take the payment out of the appropriate envelope to
apply the payment toward the credit card.
With
high percentages of U.S. Americans living beyond their means and everyone’s
attempt to stretch the dollar, at least an effort in occasional controlled spending
seems sensible. I’m on the three-month plan, which will come as a surprise to
my husband who is on the six-month plan. : )
Wish
me luck! And good luck to you if you opt to try this system. You’ll be
surprised to find where all your hard-earned money goes and how much you save
in the end!
But all joking aside, maybe I'll put those envelopes to use. Thanks for the blog!
Stylishly yours,
Miss Attitude
www.missattitude.us